Rule 1: Be direct, honest and forthright- This is one of the most attractive qualities to possess. The more direct and honest you are the more respect you will receive. This will make you a popular person among both sexes. People will be more comfortable around you and trust you. This is not an easy quality to acquire. It will take some time to start developing the confidence to be forthright. But being straight with people only helps in knowing who are genuine and who are not. If they ask for opinions, give them honest opinions. Don’t impose them on people but if they do ask for it be honest. Honesty goes a long way. Don’t weaken your body language but develop a strong physical stance when stating what you are thinking. Any weak stance in the body language will only result in rendering your opinion as dishonest. Always accompany your opinion with a strong and confident pose.
Rule 2: Value ‘you’ and prioritize yourself- The most important person in your life is you. Make yourself feel worthy first and only then others will feel attracted towards you. Respect yourself first and then others will respect you. Treat yourself by indulging in activities that pamper you. Realize your true worth and then only will you be valued by others.
Rule 3: Do not interfere in your potential partner’s problems- Learn to give space to your partner and his or her problems. It is very healthy to create boundaries in relationships. Be mature and do not be emotionally dependent on others nor expect the same from them. Be mature and independent and non-intrusive.
Rule 4: Do not be financially dependent or vice versa- Do not depend on your partner financially but be financially independent. Don’t flaunt your money by being over indulgent to your partner and buy excessive gifts for him or her. Don’t start paying your partner’s bill or buying their things for them. This develops into deep resentment where the partner or you feel like you are owned by the other. Control your own life and your finances and never depend on others for monetary reasons.
Rule 5: Follow those things that have worked out for you- There are techniques that keep working for you in life, don’t abandon them. Keep using them and in life so that you gain positive results repeatedly. Write them down and keep improving these techniques and adopt them in different situations. The moment these techniques don’t give you positive results, you can abandon them and experiment with new ones. Don’t lose heart and keep working on the techniques.